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Honoring Yourself for Faster Progress in Line with your Spirit

by SofiaWren on April 9, 2019

Helping yourself can be ego based (or not). But truly focusing on your needs and boundaries is actually often a selfless thing to do, counter to what you may have learned. You have to do this to write or create.

Having needs and boundaries is an essential part of being a human being.

We are all human, if you think that you are above having needs or boundaries then that is ego. As a human being you have been gifted with life, and it is your job to cultivate the flame you have been given.

Calling the pursuit of a need or placing of a healthy boundary “selfish” is a barrier to protecting your energy. You need to cultivate this energy to make faster progress as a writer, creator or overall human being.

And the best part about it is that it is not even about you.

This took me a long time to understand because I used to worry about causing problems and being selfish when I had to talk to someone about my needs or boundaries. Saying no was a problem.

I’ve gotten a lot better at this with age because I have seen how it harms me, and then other people, when I don’t honor my needs. And I can’t do my mission without it. Embracing this isn’t even about me, I realized. I’m actually doing Spirit a disservice if I don’t do this work because then I end up not functioning as well and not doing what I feel I am supposed to be doing to make Spirit happy.

Not taking care of yourself, not setting boundaries or pursuing your needs is actually a very ego-driven thing to do.

You may think it is selfless to sacrifice or overly accommodate other people. I disagree. I actually think that Spirit wants everyone to honor the natural impulses, needs, and boundaries that we have. This is an organic process. To train yourself that you don’t need things so that other people can have more, is actually selfish. This is you proving that your ego and your control can be used to increase your worth through self sacrifice.

It actually is setting you as different from other people. It is the ego that feels different, including feeling less then. Your spirit knows that you aren’t actually different and you have to admit you have needs like everyone else. You have feelings like everyone else. And you need to have boundaries like everyone else.

I recognize this can be obnoxious and all things must be balanced. My needs do not override another person’s needs. I do not need something from a particular person. I do not need others to change. We can always move on and enter different connections with other people. I do not need a particular person to supply a thing, although I need people and I need things.

Want to make faster progress?

Get your writing done? Your creating? Or another project that you are resisting?

Contact me or ask about a free conversation to explore how I can help you make consistent progress on your projects, or how you can meet an upcoming deadline.

Blessings!

Sofia Wren

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Navigating our Dreams to Make Faster, More Consistent Progress

by SofiaWren on April 2, 2019

I have some more radical things to say as I continue the subject of, “It’s Not About You,” from my earlier post.

Again, one of my big things is that if you want to write a book or do other creative work, you need to know that it’s not about you.

Someone asked me, “Sofia, what about memoir? If you are writing a memoir, isn’t that about you?”

My answer is that, it is, and it isn’t. Actually, memoir is something that I write, but I find that I overcome the hurdles of stopping and starting and procrastinating–and all the rest–when I remember my big purpose: to help other people, maybe, or basically just to do it because Spirit is guiding me to. Total surrender. From that place it isn’t about my ego at all. Wow! It’s a lot easier to make progress in that zone.

Completing your project and living your purpose isn’t about you. Writing a book, creating music, selling your latest coaching program or creative offering, the spiritual work you want to do–it’s not about you. It never was.

What’s really cool about this is that it means you can’t fail. Since it’s not about you. You’re just putting guidance into motion and trusting that inspiration, that something bigger, to guide your actions.

Here are some more of my recent posts on the topic of “It’s Not About You,” specifically how to navigate our dreams about helping other people.

Because what people don’t realize is that it is possible for helping people to come from the ego. Sadly, I’ve seen a lot of news come out about spiritual leaders doing bad things that hurt people. There are many spiritual leaders who are actually leading cults that disempower people. It’s possible to start a charity and have the funds go nowhere but your own pocket. The people doing these things might have even thought this was all helping people!

And that’s just the big stuff, haven’t you ever experienced when someone was trying to “help,” but really ended up making you feel worse? How can we avoid that?

The key is to understand the dangers of how the ego can play around when you try to help people.

Much of this information comes from my fancy Masters in Spiritual and Pastoral Care from Loyola in Baltimore. Enjoy!

Start here altruistic ones: Helping people is not a panacea for the ego. In fact there are many ways people “help” that is ego-based. Sometimes it doesn’t matter, but other times helping people from ego motivation can make you less helpful or even harmful to the other person. So watch out for these if you want to write or create something to help someone, or even just do so as a friend or fellow human.

1. Projection. This is particularly uncomfortable for the other person because it is very confusing. It is known as “counter transference” in the counseling world: when the counselor looks at a patient and projects their own issues and personality aspects onto the person they are talking to. They aren’t really seeing the person they serve and their own issues get in the way. This is often what people do when they are giving other people advice: they are speaking from their own experience and value system. This is so common this is taught to every counseling professional! If they can make this mistake, don’t you think you might, too?!

The more I live on this planet the more I learn that other people are different and many people have different life lessons they are supposed to learn. One man’s poison is another man’s cure.

Example: Someone is crying. You feel bad for them and afraid, you think, “Oh they need a hug!” (This is because you’d like a hug in this instance.) You go in for a hug and they freak out and run away. What happened? You overstepped! You didn’t check to see if you are the same. They were feeling trauma from being physically assaulted and did not want to be touched right now. It’s ok to make mistakes, but this our ego that drives us.

I don’t really like it when people project on me because I am sensitive and it’s confusing, and then I have to tell the other person they are wrong and then they get defensive and argue with me. It’s really tiring especially if I’m in a place where I need support. A lot of times I don’t really need advice. I just want to be heard and listened to and told that I make sense and that they have faith I’ll figure it out eventually on my own by listening to my own guidance. But sometimes advice is ok, that is, when the words they say come from the right energy—not a place of ego or projection—when they are really coming from spirit and connecting to my soul.

2. Abuse and/or Enabling. Some people covertly abuse or insult others and then brush it off and try to cure or save the person they hurt. They may not even be consciously aware of this. This makes them feel like a good person when under doubt. It may make someone dependent on them. It makes some people feel superior and better or more evolved than others when they help people, like they have value and self worth because other people are worse off then them. That’s not a great way to build your self worth—by feeling better than other people. There are better ways. Ways that are less likely to result in disrespecting, or enabling, or even abusing other people so that you feel better about yourself. I’m hoping anyone reading this wouldn’t do this, but seriously consider it a possibility that everyone is capable of this, so that you don’t fall into it by mistake.

The ego is a part of humanity and if you think you are too good to ever get a little bump in your self worth from feeling more advanced than someone else, I think you’re nuts. We can all do this, and you have to be self aware so that you catch yourself from causing harm. Some pride is okay, especially for some people with a lack of it; you have to really be open to guidance on what is right for you, the other, and your situation. Likewise, it’s not as deplorable, but helping someone to the point that they can’t function on their own without you and are demonstrating unhealthy or harmful behaviors is enabling and not a good way to help. Pray and seek help is all I can say. I don’t have easy answers on this.

3. Ignorance. The ego doesn’t know what is best and puts its foot in it. Premature judgements, suggestions, looking to rules for guidance and a one sized fit all pat solution to every problem is an issue. Watch out for the words, “I’ve seen that before.” Make sure it really applies and isn’t a premature judgement. To help someone you need to be willing to be ignorant, powerless to help and not know anything. You don’t know their life. You are not God, you just hope to help. Then be totally open and listen both to the other person and your heart for guidance. This is why I pray. Because I don’t even know what to do most of the time, and I just have to hear. It actually often works out once I release control and what I think I know; I’ve helped some people in some pretty intense and unique situations this way. This also helps you continue to learn.

There are exceptions to every rule, and the most important things are the energy stream you come from to guide you and the impact you create with your words or deeds.

Are you ready to:

Stop overthinking your writing or creating, and putting extra pressure on yourself so that you’re just blocked?
Find a pace that works for you, so you can enjoy the process of writing or creating, and meet your deadline?
Start focusing on how many people you can help instead of stop worrying about what other people think?
End the stop-start cycle so you can write or create consistently everyday, and get it out there into the world?

Want to make faster progress?

Get your writing done? Your creating? Or another project that you are resisting?

Contact me to ask about a free conversation to explore how I can help you make consistent progress on your projects.

Blessings!

Sofia Wren <3 <3 <3

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March Message: Defender of Truth

by SofiaWren on March 21, 2019

Ready to write or create something new? Here’s your #intuitive full moon message so you can make faster progress this moon cycle. This builds on the last few months, so refer back to the older posts to get a more complete sense of what is going on. March’s message is Queen of Swords.

Keywords: Powerful & Intelligent Service to a Higher Power. Truth. Justice. Balance. Mastery. Cunning. Strength. Strategy. Intelligence. Discernment. Intentional Action. Clear Headedness. Telling Truth from False.

The Queen of Swords is a defender of truth. She has absolute mastery over her thoughts, emotions and actions. She understands how she is connected to the web of life and what the ramifications of her actions are.

One of her challenges is to release the things that are not serving her: she is good at that, but sometimes she can go too far. She can be a little too cutting. The lesson is that you don’t need to do everything alone, but who do you trust? And who do you listen to? Softness is important as well as hardness.

Above all she believes in a higher power that moves through her when she is quiet to listen with an open mind, and she believes in ideals like truth, justice and discipline. These ideals inform her actions and demonstrate who she is.

This cycle learn how to cooperate with others and be open to collaborative energies. Whatever you are driven to achieve: it doesn’t need to be as hard as you think it is. There are still more things to learn even if you are a master.

You understand balance is necessary, but now you translate this understanding into action–you know this is the true test of what you know. You commit and move forward through persistence, patience and putting a strong will behind your intention and purpose.

Learn to juggle the need to play multiple roles and balance different energies. Exercise control while releasing control when necessary, too. Allow yourself to be guided and a servant of a higher power and you will find yourself lifted up to a position of sovereignty and righteousness.

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Stop the Ego To Make Faster, More Consistent Progress

by SofiaWren on March 21, 2019

I have some radical things to say.

If you want to write a book or do other creative work, you need to know that it’s not about you.

It means you can’t fail.

In fact “you” is a concept that is based in the ego. We all have an ego, that’s not a “bad” thing. In fact it is the ego that latches on to this idea of being “good” or “bad” in itself. The key is to go beyond these dualities and see the big picture.

If you want to be successful, stop thinking about what you are doing (or not doing) as a writer or creator and what it says about your character or talent. A lot of people think a lot about what people will think about them, or how good or not good their work is. What is more beneficial to focus on your habits, the result of the behaviors and actions you take, and the energy you are expressing.

When you act on the direction of your soul, your purpose, or your “higher self” (note: watch out because calling anything higher or better can get wrapped up in ego) you actually have to release taking personal credit for these things. You still get to take credit for taking the actions, because to do so you often have to really work and practice to stay optimally productive and not succumb to the resistance or other habits we all can fall into. But you aren’t, yourself, totally the creator of the impulse for these effective behaviors.

You don’t get to totally take credit for being the genius that made it all up. Because the true inspiration is an energy, a drive, an impulse that is so beyond you and me: it is spirit, it is All that Is. That is beyond “you,” beyond “me,” and to try to take full responsibility for that is hubris.

So get over yourself. If you feel bad about yourself for not being where you want to be, let it go. If you think it will make you look silly or wrong to change the way you do things, let it go. If you think it will help you to prove yourself in the eyes of others, let it go. If you think it will change somebody’s mind, let it go. If you think reaching your goal will impress someone, let it go. If you are scared of disappointing someone, let it go.

I also believe that you can make faster progress on your book or creative work by releasing expectations.

If you think the work will institute massive world change so that you are a global leader, let it go. Yeah, that’s a hard pill to swallow, I know, but lately I have realized it can be an ego trap that creates stops, starts, and bad behavior. Just be happy that writing will change one person’s life, even if it is just yours.

You will change because you are finally surrendering to your purpose and doing the REAL work you know you need to do. When you are in that place, it’s pretty crazy how authentic you end up being, and how driven you are. Then you end up helping a lot more people without even trying so hard. I know you are skeptical, “Letting go of my goals helps me??!” Yes, it does. If your goals are ego driven, they actually suck energy.

I promise you this makes it easier. Fueling your process on your ego will start up your engine but then leave you stranded in the middle of the desert with no one to call on. Fueling your process with your purpose will keep you going even when you can’t see two inches in front of your face. I promise. It’s not even about you.

Just do the work. Just do the work. Just ride the best feeling energy and get inspired, and see what the inspiration wants you to do. Just do it. Just do it. Stop thinking with ego.

LIFE IS A PARADOX. It can be about you, but really not.

Just BE you. Just BE the truth of you–the paradox is that when you are you, you are really not you. When you are really BEING you: you are all, and you are a tiny little piece. Do your piece to be ALL of who you are. Just do it!!! BE you and do you. Now. Don’t stop. Just keep doing the you that’s not really you and see what you become when you let it all go and just ACT on your inspiration like it doesn’t even reflect anything about you.

Yes, you may be seen for more of who you are by listening to your calling. You may end up on stage in front of hundreds, millions of people. Your videos or songs may be streamed. Your books may be sold. You may make millions. You may change lives.

But remember this isn’t really about you.

Are you ready to:

Stop overthinking your writing or creating, and putting extra pressure on yourself so that you’re just blocked?
Find a pace that works for you, so you can enjoy the process of writing or creating, and meet your deadline?
Start focusing on how many people you can help instead of stop worrying about what other people think?
End the stop-start cycle so you can write or create consistently everyday, and get it out there into the world?

Organize your whole life to support this process of writing, creating, and making a huge impact being you. You’ll get other goals done, too!

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Blessings!

Sofia Wren

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Event: Keep writing and creating consistently & never make excuses again

by SofiaWren on February 23, 2019

Do you want to write a book? Create music? Or do you have another project to finish for your work or business?

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–You are not moving forward consistently, you are stopping and starting on your projects and goals. You have writer’s block every few days.
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–You’ve had problems growing up, critical family members, or had toxic relationships.
–You still haven’t reached where you want to go
–It feels like a strain to get there

Learn how to accelerate your progress and get it done!

–End the stop-start cycle so you can write and create consistently everyday and get it out there in the world, fast. ?
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You’ve tried it all. You done writer’s groups, courses in writing or art, you’ve tried to have a friend or business bestie holds you accountable, you’ve tried to do it on your own and you keep having writers block every few days– or you are not doing it at all.

So here’s what I’ve created for you. I’m offering personal support on this journey.

Your results would be accelerating your progress towards all of your goals especially your writing, your creating or business creation goals, so you can make a huge impact, being YOU. And because you can here your intuition and trust it, you always know what to do next. That’s a skill you can use for the rest of your life to make decisions and guide your creative process!

When you work deeper with me, we really cultivate this so you:

Stop overthinking your writing and putting extra pressure on yourself so that you’re just blocked.
Find a pace that works for you, so you can enjoy the process of writing and meet your deadline. Get other goals done too so you can organize your whole life to support this process of writing, creating, and making a huge impact being you.
Start focusing on how many people you can help instead of stop worrying about what other people think.
End the stop-start cycle so you can write consistently everyday and get it out there in the world.

It’s time to stop making excuses. Go here to talk!

Now, I know some of you are all set with today’s training but some of you want or need more. I’m moving to Japan and I’m only taking 3 or 4 new clients. There is an investment but we will work together and get you on a writing plan that works for you and keeps you going when the writer’s block rears it’s ugly head. I can’t even describe to you what you would get out of working with me because everyone is so individual and finds their own way to rock their purpose and take their writing and creative work forward into the world.

For example, a client recently worked with me to jumpstart her book. She had dropped it for 6 years and hadn’t worked on it at all. By the end of three months, she figured out a way to work on her book as a part of her day job as a teacher, so she is basically developing the book every week for her classes. Now she cannot fail! What seems obvious now after three months was a solution that eluded her for 6 years. Now she is moving forward and can no longer have any excuse to get that book done!

So do any of these descriptions sound like you?

–You are not moving forward consistently, you are stopping and starting on your projects and goals. You have writer’s block every few days.

–You feel pressured and overwhelmed or you’re unmotivated to work now

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–You’ve had problems growing up, critical family members, or had toxic relationships.

–You still haven’t reached where you want to go

–It feels like a strain to get there

This is your time!

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Once you do that we will be in touch and we will talk in the next couple of days.

I’m not taking everyone, this is definitely an interview process to see if this is a fit and that you can get the most from working with me. But I’ll make sure everyone who talks to me gets tips, recommendations for other resources or just general clarity about where they are going and what they need to get there–even if we aren’t a fit to work together. But if it sounds like you need me and I could work deeply with you, I’ll let you know on the call.

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February: A New Cycle

by SofiaWren on February 15, 2019

Are you a writer or creator? Want to make faster progress?

Here is your message for the month as we approach the Full Moon. This is for the next moon cycle. It’s inspired by the Ace of Swords Reversed that I pulled from the Tarot. This is an excerpt from my forthcoming book of Tarot.

It’s time for a cleansing, a letting go, a division. This begins inside with a decision, a clarity, a commitment that determines what you need to do for everything else.

It’s time to sort energies into two piles: the kind of energy you are going to take with you in the future and the kind you are going to leave behind. You will have to mourn everything you lose and change even if it wasn’t working for you. Perhaps you have some delusions or illusion. But it’s time to get clear on what you really want and if the things in your life stand in your way or support those goals.

Examine your ways of thinking. There may be limiting beliefs you need to clear from your mind. You may need to release unreasonable expectations other people are trying to put on you. Clear cords and connect to your purest core essence energy to have the highest wisdom, discernment and judgement.

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Learn why you keep making excuses and what to do about it. Join me live!

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Musical Performance By Sofia Wren

by SofiaWren on February 13, 2019

I’m excited to share my recent musical performance with you! This includes a brand spanking new song and 2 originals I’ve written in the later part of 2018. All songs are by Sofia Wren and may not be performed by someone else without my permission.

Hope you enjoy these recordings from my live performance at Teavolve in Baltimore on February 4th 2019. (It was a New Moon in Aquarius!)

I wrote the song “Feel My Feels” the day before jumping on stage. I decided to do something “crazy” which was to invite anyone who wanted to join me on stage to improve with me. It turned out great with Jen Parde on keys and vocal harmony, and Chuck the Mad Ox on beatbox. Hear it below.

I’ve been through a lot of things in my life and I’ve managed to keep high spirits. Everything I am today is not a product of the things that have happened–it is influenced by that, but mainly my choices have created who I am. I take pride in that. I used to be humble, but I really need to take some credit for who I have become. It’s very empowering that way. That’s what this next song “Credit” is about.

People say spirits walk the earth. I was raised secular but my mother passed away when I was three, so I’ve always wondered…A while ago I started to be open to the idea that her spirit was with me, but it really freaked me out. Eventually, it started to be more comfortable to me.

I feel like if my mother hadn’t passed, I wouldn’t have had the same interest in spirituality. I also wouldn’t have been so creative, because I use my creativity to process the feelings I have. I think that creative works like songs, books, etc., make us immortal. That combined with the idea of living beyond the physical body imply an “Everlasting Life.” That’s what this song, “Everlasting Life,” is about.

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January: Embrace the Ride

by SofiaWren on January 22, 2019

For January’s Full Moon, here is a clip from my upcoming book on the Tarot and a message to guide you to make faster progress. It’s based on the card I pulled, Six of Swords Reversed.

Keywords: Safety, Inward Reflection, Journey, Harmony, Inner Peace, Moving Towards Balance, Life Direction, Healing, Finding Your Place in the World and Your Life

Take time this month and lunar cycle ahead to enter a space of inner reflection and self care. There is nothing more important than your inner journey right now. It is time to heal and release. You may do this with other people’s help but most of all you must create the space to be with yourself and pay attention to your inner world.

Perhaps you have been looking outward at things you want to change or create in your life and the answer is really on the inside. You may be trying to get somewhere, but this card advises a sort of trust in the natural pace of things. You are moving. You are traveling. However you may not see an external evidence of this at this time because it is important to look on the inside and make shifts there that may be invisible to you or others. However there is an opportunity in the next month or moon cycle to bring something to your consciousness or release it for your higher good.

Sometimes we look to others for validation in our experience. The most important contributor to your journey and experience is yourself. Are you in harmony with yourself? Or are you at odds?

Are you pulling yourself multiple directions? Are you fully aligned with what you are wanting to feel, create, or experience in your life or relationships? Often times we have different motivations and those things pull us in different ways. It’s time to try to let go and resettle so that your ship is moving in a single direction–otherwise you are just going to float or spin around.

It may be time to schedule alone time or a retreat so that you can cut out distractions and truly listen to the messages arising from inside of you. When you release, the situation will become obvious. Be self loving and forgiving. Everything is okay.

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December: Feel the Love

by SofiaWren on December 1, 2018

Below is the message for December to help you to make faster progress on projects. This is an excerpt from my forthcoming book on the Tarot. As a writer or creator, always know what to do next because you can hear your intuition.

Keywords: Love. Forgiveness. Self Acceptance. Patience. Vulnerability. Safety. Trust. Respect. Friendship. Marriage. Harmony. Receptivity. Intimacy. Connection. Sharing. Relationship.

How you do one thing is how you do anything. See how the relationships and the dynamics are playing out in your life, and remember to accept what you get isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The most important part of any process is self realization and sometimes that comes from reflection or entering a conscious space. Sometimes being in a new relationship with your understanding of an experience is enough to create a radical transformation. Pursue the place of feeling love in your heart for life itself, for you in it, for your place, and what is before you. This heart centered place will help you to expand your self potential and the manifest your desired projects–or perhaps something even better than you could have imagined. Because surrender is an important part of any loving process.

Surrendering is entering an altered state and believing it is possible to exist without everything you used to cling to. To enter a new reality where the experience of expansion and space itself can be a form of existence even if you forget your Self.

And yet sometimes forgetting yourself in a relationship causes codependent or unhealthy behavior or enables others to behave badly around you or unknowingly cross your boundaries. Containers and boundaries are necessary to love. Love is like water, which needs containers to prevent spilling all of the energy. Boundaries are an inevitable point of tension in your month this December. There is no knowing how profound these individual negotiations can be, and may relate to your experience in other areas of your life, so seek behavior that acts in integrity with your soul. You may find yourself being drawn into deep or difficult conversations and this is ok, this is a form of energy work. Use your guidance and prayers to guide you to the most helpful language, self reflect or journal.

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November: Victory!!

by SofiaWren on November 14, 2018

Below is the message for November to help you to make faster progress on projects. As a writer or creator, always know what to do next because you can hear your intuition.

{The image of this card is from the Shadow Scape Tarot)

This spiritual message of this month is based on the Tarot card 6 of Wands. This is channeled writing and an excerpt from my forthcoming book on the Tarot. Take a moment to be open to any positive shifts that may occur as you read this sacred writing and remember to breathe.

Keywords: Go For it! Victory, Presence, Power, Claiming What You Want, Movement, Energy, Manifesting, Completion, Enjoying, Celebrating You Did It, Personal Satisfaction & Accomplishment, Pride, Job Well Done, Empowerment, Balance Yin & Yang (Through More Yang!), Confidence, Actualizing Ideas or Projects. Passion

Symbolizing Victory, the 6 of wands is great news for anyone working on a creative project or manifesting a desire they are passionate about. This means you are blessed with a better environment for getting what you desire or aim for this month.

Sometimes fears, worries, insecurities can get in the way of receiving what you desire. That is–sometimes what you want is actually present but you just need the confidence to reach out and grab it. Fucking grab it! Or maybe you just need to admit what you want, where your passion or desire is stirring and let yourself really want that. It may differentiate you from other people–that’s a good thing. That’s you being you. That’s you being who you were born to be. That’s how you can be powerful. Let the desire happen and the ripples flow into the universe. Let yourself want it with deep fiery passion, I dare ya.

There is a yang, hot, red, fiery energy that you can tap into this month to create what you want. Power is something that not everyone is in the habit of wielding. Maybe you’ve seen others abusing their power. Maybe you feel constrained by gender norms, patriarchal limitations, scarce finances, beliefs about how much time you have or what’s possible. Maybe you don’t want to go there and be disappointed. Maybe you don’t want to be judged because of your skin color, gender, identity, or status. Maybe you’ve never achieved what you wanted before or it has been a long discouraging road. Wanting what you want can be VULNERABLE. The headgames we get into can be super dumb and annoying! That’s how you know something is off. But feel into the powerful, yang side of that and go big. Don’t play small. It’s time to shake that off and BELIEVE in yourself and the possibility of getting what you want.

The universe will find a way. Know that it’s ok to pursue what you want. It is ok for YOU to be the one to take action, use your voice, make a move, take a step towards it. If you work with others they will be mirroring possibilities back to you or you will find new people showing up who will be better able to help. Follow the energy that makes you feel good and powerful. If there is another situation that doesn’t–take a look at any limiting beliefs or emotions that have more to do with the past than the present. Are you really blocked? Or are you blocking yourself? Are you embracing your yang power? Or are you worried it will not be appreciated and that you will cause or receive harm from expressing your might? Are you ready to go big and actually stop compromising on what you really desire? Can you make connections with people who are right there and maybe just need to get a dose of that inspirational fire you’ve been cultivating behind the scenes. Get over whatever it is and take advantage of the energy for the month!!

Get ready to receive what you want, babes.

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