Yesterday I made a video about my personal goals.
The things I chose for myself, not other people or for work.
I shed a few tears sharing about how things have been because I got very REAL.
I felt self-conscious afterwards but I think letting my guard down more is good for me.
I hope being real is contagious and my sharing makes you feel like you can be more yourself.
I never want to be one of those people telling you what to do against your own inner urges,
if anything I say or write doesn’t resonate with you, please toss it.
I truly want to see more REAL humans in the world, more of you and who you really are.
My big point is: don’t let society or other people dictate your priorities, even me.
Here is a clip of what I shared in my video:
My dad died two years ago, and it really put my entire life upside down. He’s my only parent and I became responsible for his estate. And it just really changed my life a lot.
It changed my priorities a lot and changed what I had tolerance for, and what I had energy for and motivation for completely, because a lot of the things that I had juice for before, I didn’t anymore,
or I was like why? this is actually not that important.
So it was really important for me to feel like I had a clarity of purpose for the year 2023 and what I was going to do, because that really helps me to know that I’m on track.
And I really feel better when I feel like I’m on track.
But the key is to make sure that my goal is one that is really going to be a productive one, by my own standards. And not just what society tells us to prioritize.
To repeat, I had to find the goal I truly wanted to pursue from my own desire, and not just what other people want me to prioritize.
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