What took me 30 years to Get

by SofiaWren December 23, 2020

What took me 30 years to get…

I used to get down about not being everybody’s cup of tea but what I have realized is that the people who are into me are REALLY into me.

Take dating. I used to get down about:
-Guys who took forever to call me.
-People who went out a few times and then just didn’t seem as into me as I was I to them.
-The weird vibe where things just did not feel like enough, giving me anxiety.

Then there is business:
-People who scroll on by.
-People who looked at my stand at a fair silently or saying, “hmm,” before walking away.
-Trying to come up with offers everyone can say yes to and then getting low engagement.

As a writer when I wrote my book Freedom Year, these things were in my mind making me think:

-Should I write that?
-Should I go there?
-What if people do not like it?
-Or do not get it?
-Or immediately dismiss me for being too spiritual, too weird for talking about trying to be a dominatrix, too out there for sharing about LSD…

Well screw it!

Because when I started dating at 30 after a long hiatus I realized that the people who were into me were REALLY into me.

I realized the writers and businesses I follow GO there. They go into those topics I was not sure about.

I found from experience that when you go there, you speak to the people ready to applaud you for going there.

You stand out.

You magnetize the people who get you.

Then you have a community to support you being more you.

That is more support for everything you create, your book, business, whatever.

And the very best part is you get to be all of yourself from start to finish.

I have no regrets about publishing Freedom Year and have found when I go there on social media, with clients, with my business, good things keep happening.

And I feel like a complete, fully expressed human.

This is the way to go.

Can I hear an amen?

Image from: @lalahdelia

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