Many years ago I struggled with something huge.
My voice would literally squeak when I tried to sing in front of people.
Instead of standing tall, I would shrink.
My body reacted with so much fear to so many opportunities
In real life, I felt like I would blow opportunities.
I didn’t speak up
My god. And my body was what was against me.
What I really wanted was to show up, and knock it out of the park with my singing.
Now you might not be a singer, but I think we all want to be seen through the things that we do in the real world.
Covid has made the world very strange and unpredictable in new ways, so I notice these old fears come up.
Everybody is stressed interacting with the general public, because it’s been a weird few years.
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There are tools I use to chill–like EFT.
But something else also really helped me relax my body singing in public, speaking to other people, selling my skills, and being on camera.
Making videos really helped me feel more confident sharing my unique voice.
I’m lucky that being an entrepreneur pushed me to try to show up on camera,
just like I’m grateful that being a singer forced me on stage to be seen by hundreds of people–
Being SEEN
it is a really big deal.
Isn’t it terrifying?
At times I so wanted to be understood and seen by others but deep down when I tasted it, I realized it makes me want to pee my pants.
Fear of success.
Fear of too much attention.
Fear of being seen.
It’s all being afraid of my bigness.
And this happens to us creators a lot, especially as a sensitive woman.
But the jitters and the fear can go away.
It can be like a muscle, that with time and safety, it ceased to bother me as much.
I learned that in a small community, where I felt safe to share,
it was a private facebook group.
Finding a safe space, making videos
Sharing something I want to share–
whether it was a song, or some writing read out loud, or something I know about, a story…
It healed me.
I felt so accepted by reactions I have had from people out there.
I’ve made really good friends that way.
But how did I get here?
The wall flower making videos casually…
I was terrified of anyone’s negative opinion before,
Years ago I began turning over every stone because I ached for freedom,
learning from healers all over the world.
In the end I was so surprised:
Who would have thought that video would be so therapeutic?
I love learning tools to support me emotionally–
but I have to take risks outside of the room I’m living in.
I have to take risks to connect to people and make friends.
Risks initiate changes.
And with taking some risks, I found a flow on camera and also in more situations in my life.
But how did I get here?
The wall flower making videos casually…
I was terrified of anyone’s negative opinion before,
Years ago I began turning over every stone because I ached for freedom,
learning from healers all over the world.
In the end I was so surprised:
Who would have thought that video would be so therapeutic?
I love learning tools to support me emotionally–
but I have to take risks outside of the room I’m living in.
I have to take risks to connect to people and make friends.
Risks initiate changes.
And with taking some risks, I found a flow on camera and also in more situations in my life.
I am inviting you all to join me and my friend Kate for the shine go live challenge today
It starts now!!!
It’s a free challenge to help you get comfortable on video, especially if there is something you’d like to sell online.
There are entrepreneurs, healers, artists and workshop creators, coaches of many kinds taking this challenge.
Kate is an amazing coach who always tells you to trust your intuition first.
Here’s more on her event–
the benefits of this are so great for you all-round.
Join me if you want to get comfortable sharing your work on video.
in Kate’s free 3 day challenge, which has prizes and starts today.
It doesn’t have to take a lot of time, just check it out.
Below is more about it!
And scroll down if you want more info on the Psychic Mermaid Creatrix course starting Thursday
A message from my friend Kate in Paradise
(on the right above next to me <3 )
Is this what you are longing for?
- A deep connection to your purpose
- To make money living your calling
- To build a legacy that you can leave behind
Is there a burning desire inside you that is not going away?
Are you tired of living out of alignment?
Are you done being afraid of your calling?
Are you ready to take the risk and go for your big dream?
COME GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE!!
Join us for the free
SHINE ONLINE Go Live Challenge
Here is what’s included:
Day 1 – My Secrets For Having Consistent 10–20K Plus Months Doing ONLY Things I Absolutely Love
Discover how I create a profitable business working from anywhere on the planet, and how you may be blocking soulmate clients from finding you. Plus, learn how I empower women to create a revenue-generating business using the gifts and talents they already have.
Day 2 – How To Share Our Story And Message In A Way That Magically Attracts Our Soulmate Clients
This day is about how to easily and authentically share our story and message in a way that captivates our soulmate clients and positions us as an expert. Discover how to create freedom by being 100% your authentic self.
Day 3 – My Simple Structure To Selling That Feels Natural And Easy
Learn how to speak clearly and confidently about your offer with this simple structure. Get ready to create quantum leaps in your business using my SHINE ONLINE formula for building online presence and falling in love with self-promotion, marketing, and selling online – so that you create a freedom-based business on your terms.
Want to have fun building your online presence and working with dream clients?
My formula is simple and authentic; it allows us to be all of ourselves, share what we love, and get paid over and over again.
This is an easy, repeatable system for creating a 100% abundant freedom-based business on our own terms!
All this content is valued at over $800
You will leave the challenge with total clarity around your offers, your message and how to sell online in a way that feels authentic and in alignment with your soul
3 videos that share your message in a clear way that inspires your clients to buy your products and services
A high vibe community supporting you to collaborate and network with
A new sense of confidence around your purpose and how to move towards it every day in your online business
Join us for the first training already available inside the free SHINE Group
If you love Kate and her message and end up signing up for her Shine program, contact me
I’m offering a free bonus to people who sign up through me–
Free membership in the Psychic Mermaid Creatrix course.
if you buy the Shine program this week!
I am an affiliate for Kate because I think our work is very complimentary.
We vibe.
If you have a business or a message to share–the combination of both of our classes and communities is going to create such epic change it might shatter your life!
In a good way
to reveal who you really are.
Please contact me for details about the bonus free PMC course before you purchase Kate’s Shine online program this week.)
Let’s create LIFE fulfilling opportunities on all levels–
including life, rest, friends, creativity,
people you love, as well as your “work”
Make faster progress on all your projects, books, and business…
The Psychic Mermaid Creatrix course is now on sale until November 18th!
Get support to create on all levels.
Whatever is bubbling inside of you,
Listen to whatever it is you need to do and take the next step to create… whatever it is.
The creative process has similar trends across all creations!
I teach you what I’ve learned from creating for my projects and supporting other creators, writers and entrepreneurs for 9 years.
Do you want to make faster progress on a book, a website, a business, all the above or another cool project?
Feel inspired to create more easily
Download it and channel it rather than having to do it all by yourself
Clear the inner blocks that are in the way of sharing your work and expand to be bigger
Get connected to what to do next because you are that clear, inspired and focused
Have a supportive structure that fits you, not limits you, so you get more done,
Stop grinding or feeling stuck!
In the course you get:
7 LESSONS with short videos to guide you through the process of creating awe-striking things for your project
7 BI-WEEKLY ZOOM CALLS with supportive group rituals to take your book or business through the course and make progress together.
Bonus “Where do I start?” Lesson for you if you have too many ideas to pick from
Bonus Digital Template Set and Training with Notion to help you get organized and focused on what you need to do next.
Bonus Mermaid Meditation to put you in a creative powerhouse state to write and create more rapidly through inspiration.
BONUS
Free 60 Minute Call 1-1
Deep Dive into your book, business or project and connect to the soul of it for faster progress with Sofia. ($200 value FREE)
For the next 3 students only!!
Click here to see the details and payment options.
The sale and free 60 minute call bonus ends when we start November 18
If you have questions about if this program is right for you to create more easily for any project, life, business, book, you can hit reply and email me.
If you have any questions about the course, or thoughts about this blog, feel free to contact me.
We get started November 18th.
This is great time to sign up for 1-1 coaching if you’d like sessions privately with me. We do such amazing, deep work!
VIP Course
Inclides: Group Course + Private Time
- Extra (3) 60-80 minute Deep Dive sessions
only $132 more
or $44 more for 3 months.
Woo! Pay attention to that bargain…
Because it’s going away.
Only for early birds
Claim your 1-1 time now because after midnight on November 17th VIP pricing goes up $314!
If you’ve been interested in 1-1 coaching to make progress on your book, business or project, then now is a great time!
Testimonials about 1-1 work with Sofia Wren:
“I chose to work with Sofia because I believed she could help me discover areas where I had ‘blockage’ between me and my higher purpose: Helping small business owners know who they are, define their superpower, and find the words to articulate it.
My sessions with Sofia were powerful and cleansing; she was completely present and held a strong, loving space for me.
After working with Sofia, I felt at peace and ready to move forward living my purpose. I felt calm, confident, and grounded in my work. Sofia is a golden soul and sharing her light is a gift.”
Maggy Sterner, brand & business coach (maggysterner.com)
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Sofia, in her gentle and wise way, helped me to find clarity of purpose with my music while reminding me to keep rooted in that purpose as I take intentional steps forward rather than being overwhelmed with how to put it all together perfectly.
Once I released the worrying part, the path became more clear and the steps were more solid, like stepping stones. One baby step in particular has formed into amazing opportunity that is giving clear form to the path ahead.
Now, rather than having a pile of stones and pebbles rubbled before me that I must clear, the useful pieces of the pile are shifting forward to form the steps of clear path while the useless falls away. Thank you, Sofia!”
Kathryn, Musician
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Sofia, It felt like you made an effort to keep me feeling connected and safe throughout the session. The words you used were spot on for me. Then, at the end of the session, you gave me a sign that you had definitely connected to the creative soul of my business. The way you described the creative soul energy around me felt very accurate, and throughout the call you pointed out things to me that helped me see my situation in a more expansive way. Overall, it was an enjoyable experience that shifted my perception.
I felt excited after we worked together. I also felt reassured and comforted by what you revealed to me about the creative soul of my business. I had peace of mind at the end of the session that I just didn’t have before the session.
Now, I definitely trust that the creative soul of my business exists, and now I have images to connect to the energy of it. I also keep reminding myself of things you said, that have helped me let go of anxiety, open up to the possibilities around me more, and take more risks because I feel more safe. I’ve allowed myself to share my business ideas with potential clients, which I might not have had the courage to do the week before. I can normally hear my intuition pretty well, but working with you helped me find the courage to act on my intuition.
Allison S, Entrepreneur.
Only want the Group?
Grab Psychic Mermaid Creatrix before it increases by $111 on the 18th!
you can start for as little as $222
We are starting soon.
Live group zoom Mermaid sessions
Sacred rituals of creative progress, and inspiration to help you know what to do and create next for your book, business or project.
Starting 2 PM EST on November 18th
7 Sessions live included in the PMC course!
I’ve added more live group sessions in the last month so you have more support to go through each lesson together.
Also everyone may not be able to make all the lessons, which are all 2 pm EST on biweekly thursdays.
Touching base on each lesson on the course is important — each lesson helps you move through a part of the creative process
But it’s ok if you can’t make the live class.
It’s ok if you can’t watch every video
take little bites however works for you:
Watching all the videos, or some, just come to a group call or both, whatever you want.
This course will spark you in nibbles or gulps, however you want to consume it, and at what speed.
You must sign up by midnight November 17th to get the access to the first live class.
The next live session is December 2nd
Video tour of inside the course is here (see the hub of videos and digital templates included and what they are all about <3 )
Ready to tap into your mermaid magic?
—> See the Psychic Mermaid Creatrix course page to see the details of the outline, course date, and the sparkly payment options
Swim swim!