Process: Outing Myself & Massive Shifts You Will Notice & Baby Turtles

Abstract BlueGreen by Sofia Wren

I want to say thank you to all the people who chance upon this blog. Thank you for visiting once or many times, or leaving a comment or following my posts here or on social media.

I am very grateful that I’ve had this space to share the essence of everything that I felt afraid to be open about in my real life. Almost 40,000 visitors in a little over a year. Wow. I’ve had a lot of blogs, but never had incentive to get my words out there  before.

A pen name for me represented the ability to express myself without compromise despite the huge limitations I had around walking my talk in my real life, ie my job, my business, my massage therapy practice. I really couldn’t see a reality where I could have everything under one name. I felt I just didn’t fit in anywhere.

The time has come for my disparate parts to come together.

When any part of us is boxed as separate it becomes a more extreme version. 

When Sofia Wren and my birth name Sofia Nitchie soon combine, things will be calmer.

 I’ve considered Sofia Wren, previously Wren Doloro, to be my edgy side. The side that dared to be different, dared to rebel, dared to be an individual freethinker innovator change maker. The lady busting down doors to stand on top.

Edge as in innovation, is what I am about. Step over the edge. I want to encourage people to evolve, to empower others to develop to their full potential and have that ripple across the world.

BUT in real life what I am not about is conflict. Thus what I am not about is rebellion. This is a shift.

What I have really been rebelling against is my own box.

What I have really been rebelling against are my own ideas about who and what I have to be to fit in with other people.

There are people like me out there, they just aren’t in line with the dominant culture right now. But I don’t have to cram myself into the cracks of a culture that isn’t mine. I’ll start my own.

I’m different. I am dreamy. I have a streak of badass, but I don’t want to be fighting. Rebels fight. I turned away from a career in politics or law because I didn’t want to fight. I could be making lots of money miserably tallying up billable hours right now.

I’m really just a creative soul in a linear world.

I want my life to be about healing and teaching others to transform their lives. So I will start with myself.

There will be many changes. This blog is moving. I am moving….forward. Not on. I am not dropping everything I’ve built here, but my voice is changing. Stepping over the edge.

Remember http://www.sofiawren.com

This is what happens when someone heals. Please understand I am all of me, the passion still burns, but it is a steady flame now as I tend it. No more rages, no more dampening out, instead there is even light and constant warmth.

Be ready, massive shifts are occurring.

Sofia Wren is headed out of my mind, and out of my computer, and into the sunshine.

wee! Yeah I tried hard to be serious this whole post. But I’m happy. It’s rebirth time.

And as another thanks for sticking with me, here’s a video of baby turtles that brought tears to my eyes. <3