Are you feeling any of this?
I’m so sick of the WORLD massively critiquing everyone else’s words all the time and treating them like crap.
If you try to think of what to say, it’s like 3D Chess.
3D Chess vibes come from trying to please everyone, speak to everyone, tackle every argument before you have it.
If you fail to do it right, you face punishment: being misunderstood, getting mean comments, or being treated like scum.
That is not safe.
You need safety to think with your whole brain! And be creative! That helps you write.
SAFETY IS SO IMPORTANT.
So I am really into creating it for myself and for others when we talk or try to write.
I work hard to make my 6 month writing group a safe space. It is for nonfiction writers working on a book or business content.
But do me a favor, you can bring your HEART that is aching from whatever into my zone (that is fine)
but I need to keep that super divisive political arguing OUT. Keep that out of my groups.
Not just for other people to feel safe, but also for me…
I’m done playing 3D CHESS!
The beautiful thing I am not alone.
I’ve been writing and sharing how I feel with others over the past few weeks, and I’m finding like-minds.
There are many (maybe quiet people) who are done playing 3D Chess too.
People who are looking for a little respite from the storm outside.
Who just want to dig into the writing they feel called to do for their book or business,
so they can help people and connect with their whole heart.
That’s all they want to do, and guess what….that is ALLOWED.
You are allowed to say that you don’t feel like playing 3D chess.
If that’s you, I’m calling you in.
There’s another way to write that speaks to your soul, no 3D chess included.
I’ve got a group.
It’s small. It’s cute. It’s secluded.
You are welcome in my Winter Writing Group (open now) to seek safety from 3D Chess games and just write.
Not interested? Then come join us in the Free 21 Day Heartfelt Writing Challenge happening in a few weeks.
Just FYI:
Everyone in my Winter Writing group signs an agreement to treat each other with mutual respect and not dive in with endless criticism that people never asked for.
And to avoid super divisive topics.
Join us in the Winter Writing Group
and be 3D Chess free
Cheers and Happy Thanksgiving if you celebrate it
(yes, I know it has a terrible history but I like food).
xo
Sofia Wren
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