What I realized a few weeks ago is a game changer.
I realized that IMPATIENCE with myself or my life, my writing or my business…
Is a sign of DISRESPECT to myself.
Yes, it is a sign of disrespect.
I do my best to be patient with others, but with myself?
Not as much. That’s where my inner mean girl comes out.
She says everything is not happening fast enough.
And it’s just plain disrespectful to me.
Making this connection really woke me up recently, especially when it felt like I had to perform for outside forces.
I always have a lot of projects going and some things had gone on the backburner for a while.
My inner critic had totally judged that as too slow or not enough.
I realized taking off that pressure and focusing on it as a process was really going to help long term–both for my emotional health and also for the projects.
So now I am offering it to you in case it helps:
patience with yourself is a form of respect that you do deserve no matter what.
Maybe it is taking exactly the time that it takes and anyone who says something different just does not understand–
since they aren’t you and they don’t know all the things.
BAM.
Take that inner critics.
As I said in my last email, working on your writing for your business or book is a process, as well as getting clear on what to say.
IT IS A PROCESS.
And when you focus on it being a process, it frees you up to discover what is next for you in a more authentic way.
In a way that flows, that is organic, that feels like art of pleasure or something that you may not have been allowing yourself.
You can make decisions that you will be happy about later because you got the information or processing time necessary.
And hello–enjoy the ride!! Remember that concept?
When people focus on the product (the end result of success, or clients, or being viral, or sales, or a book bestseller or a completed website)
that means you can eliminate things that seem like ‘distractions’…
When they aren’t distractions at all!
What if that distraction you might cut out was your inner genius and your inner mermaid (same thing) telling you exactly what to do?
What if while you were out taking a walk because you just felt like it, you had a brilliant idea?
What if while in the bath you healed a million childhood wounds and completely changed your life and now you don’t need to do the damn thing anymore at all?
What if you go to a retreat and meet someone that 5 years later gives you a job that shows you what you are really meant to do?
I have all of these experiences so I know that listening to your intuition is important.
I know that going slow enough is cool–and ultimately can be faster since you avoid racing in the wrong direction.
I know that enjoying the process is KEY.
Because life is not all about work or production, it is also about LIFE.
Because when you stop and just focus on exploding and being done, you really miss out on something.
You miss out on self respect, and self love and alllllllllllllllll the good that results in.
I promise when you are feeling those kind of vibes, it will radiate off you and into everything you do to communicate about your business or mission.
It will get built into the words in your book.
You’ll market yourself in a way that gets a different kind of attention.
It will spread like an auric field or an avalanche of lilac-infused aromas, and people around you will appreciate it.
It’s going to have good results when it comes to helping others and connecting to the people you are here to serve.
Because obviously, you can’t help anyone if you can’t help yourself first.
What is it that you are really needing? And how can you pursue that?
Are you willing to give yourself permission to receive whatever it is you need to thrive,
knowing that you will be clearer and more energized to do whatever you need to do from that fulfilled place?
Go deeper into this and other themes from the 7 layer series in the live summer workshops now open for registration!
It will take each layer deeper and help you tap into your inner genius.
The 7 Layer Writing Vision Activation Live group is open!!
For PEOPLE ON A MISSION who want to write for business, website, copywriting, content, or a book.
- Know what to write next because you have clear vision and inspiration at every step
- Make important decisions so you do the right thing for you and your project
- Share your book or business so the right people get drawn to your work
7 LIVE BI-WEEKLY ZOOM CALLS
Tailored to your needs, these hour long sessions dive into your writing vision so you get clear on what to write and share your soul with the people who need to hear it
Includes live exercises + Q&A
GROUP VOXER COACHING
Get your questions answered between workshop sessions with free weekly texts and voice note communication with Sofia. Shared in a private group for 6 months.
ONLINE VIDEO VAULT
Instant access to the online vault for the ‘Psychic Mermaid Creatrix’ course will help you clear the fog and tap into your inner mermaid, so you can get started finding the next best step for your project right away.
Includes Worksheets & 40+ videos
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Instant access to the simple system to organize your ideas, and projects with prompts and training to know what to do next. Everything is customizable! Perfect for people juggling a lot.
Includes Digital Templates + Video Training
If you want to write for your business or book and connect to the people you are here to serve, this could be perfect for you.
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